Choker: Do’s and Don’ts

Choker: Do’s and Don’ts

hey babes,

I hope you had an amazing weekend and started off week well. I kind of always hate this first days of the week, but lately the weather has been amazing so I can’t be hating anything about it. But anyways today we will talk little bit about over lovely chokers. Chokers are great trend from 90s and it came back and it still after view years going strong. I still remember how obsessed I was with these net chokers my friends and I would always wear them and they would come with pack of choker, these rings and bracelets and I also remember that my mom hated it and didn’t like me wearing.

They didn’t just bring

back the epic trend from 90’s they actually did upgrade it a bit because why bring something back if you won’t upgrade it?! And now we don’t only have cheap net chokers but chokers all kinds of size, style, colour everything from simple black chokers to denim choker yes guys denim chokers are real thing . Chokers are great but there is little problem with them, they are not like regular necklace so they don’t go with everything, so you have to be careful with what you are wearing, so your girl hooking you up today with do’s and don’ts with choker, so you don’t have to think if it is alright like this or not. So here are view do’s and don’ts hope you enjoy it

So let’s first start off with easy stuff and that is DO’S:

1. V- neck t-shirt work or V-neck t-shirt with choker (see in picture below)

great with choker it is open and you can see the neck. This way the choker is shown on your skin and with that hight it gives that lager neck effect

2. Mix them up with your other necklaces

it looks really cool and since they are not places on the same part of the neck it doesn’t distract it from choker

3. For night out the gold or silver choker

is great it will highlight your neck and  you will look flawless in your little black dress with gold or silver choker

4. Go for large choker so make your outfit little bit more interesting

it will make your outfit pop out and cool way to style your elegant look with a choker and in case if you are wondering if you need to add something to be more elegant just add large choker it will do the trick

5. You are allow to wear choker with other 90s trends

that is totally in this season and that is velvet yes choker and velvet work great together of course. I would not wear velvet turtleneck dress with choker but nice V neck t-shirt or hight heels or even trousers look great so go for it

6. Mix it up with retro style pieces


Yes choker couldn’t be better to be paired with for example round glasses, high waisted jeans or crop top.

7. With laid back look oversized denim jacket

and some jeans choker will make this look more interesting will compliment the outfit
8. Shoulder off top is great suit to choker, wear bold choker with shoulder off top and some nice trousers or skirt and you will look great and for a second it will look like it is also a part of a top

So now that we went through couple of do’s let’s do don’ts and read this careful this one is more important

1. Don’t over do it!!

Don’t put all kind of choker with different styles and colours no that doesn’t work and it is way too much for one outfit just keep it simple one choker is enough

2. Turtleneck

is pretty much no no as I said it hides your neck and this way it can’t compliment your neck

3. Don’t wear chocker too tight

first your skin will start to get red and that is not good and second it doesn’t look flattering when it is too tight and you should be able to slightly move it around

4. Don’t add earring

when wearing choker you need to keep your focus on your neck and if you are wearing earring that will just be distracting and also one accessory is enough

5. Different patterns

just doesn’t go with choker. You can wear some bracelets with choker but it has so suit and need to be like same style

6. Be careful of style of the choker

if for example the choker is this kind of lace choker you can’t wear laid back outfit it just would look silly

So I thought I would also show you guys view of my fav choker and where you can get them:

This one I got last year in November at Stradivarius and it comes with this two chokers. The first one that long one with little detail on end and I have been wearing this one like crazy. I love that goes down this way it is like necklace as well and it looks great with any outfit with sweater or some simple t-shirt. The other one is little bit special and has this gold details that makes it for your neck so flattering and gives that bigger neck effect and you can wear it with v-neck t-shirt such a good idea and then add some leather jacket and this one cost around 10 dollars
This one I got for present from my friend and I think it is so cute. It is little bit retro the chain and I love it. My style is not that retro but I love putting retro accessories and this is great with high waisted jeans or these mom jeans as well and she got at Forver21 for about 4 dollars
With this I also got two in one, but I only wear the long one I don’t know the other doesn’t suit to my style. I love the fact that it is pretty long and you can set it up differently longer or shorter and even make a bow there it is really cute you can wear it from casual looks to nigh out looks and it is from Bershka and it was around 10 dollars
So guys that was it for my choker do’s and don’ts article. I think chokers are really great and you can play around with them a lot but some things just don’t go at all and I think they are so flattering to your neck as well. Hope you also liked the chokers I showed you which I have been wearing like crazy. Wish all of you amazing people great week
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How to discover your own personal style?

How to discover your own personal style?

The meaning

behind fashion is expressing yourself through your clothes, but I feel this meaning got lost in translation. Nowadays instead of focusing on how to express yourself through your clothes, we trend to focus on what is trend and how to impress others. You shouldn’t be wearing something to impress someone, or because it is something many are wearing at the moment. It is not wrong to get inspired by latest trends, but then put your own twist to it so it aligns with you.

There are many

disadvantages of wearing something that doesn’t align with you and your personality and I will be telling you all about it in upcoming article. Because we are too focused on trends, finding our personal style can first be very difficult and can cause you to cloud your decision. It is important to find what truly is your personal style, because when something aligns with you, you feel more comfortable therefore you will feel more confident wearing it. If you were wondering why you seem so insecure, maybe rethink your personal style.

If something aligns with you,

it will anyways be stylish, because being yourself will never go out of the style. Here you won’t be getting how to style latest trends, but how to style according to you and your personality. Latest trends are only trendy if they fit your personality. If you love bright colours, we support it, we support anything as long as it is true to yourself. So now where do we start? How do we find our personal style?

Finding personal style can be really easy, just in view simple steps in you have it, so let’s go:

Get to know yourself:

This one is the most important. If you don’t know who you truly are, you can’t really know what is your personal style. Dive deep into yourself ask yourself questions like:

-What do I like/enjoy doing?

-What words describe me? (Not how you like to be described, but how you really are)

-What makes me happy?

-Ask your friends and family to describe you?

-What makes me unique? (And don’t even say nothing is special about me, everyone is unique in their own way)

Getting to know yourself and knowing who you truly are will play important role in finding your own personal style. Try also to be aware what you are doing during the same, some small habits you have, how to interact with people, what makes you nerves or stressed.

Learn to love yourself:

After you got to know yourself on a deeper level, you got to work on loving yourself. In this part you got to be open and accepting. I also have to mention that in part of getting to know yourself, you can’t be convincing yourself to be someone you are not, just because you rather be that. In the long run it will don’t be good for you. You got to be open to fully knowing your true self. Learning to love yourself can be really difficult so some people, so be patience. High light some unique qualities you have, and try saying affirmations like “I love and accept myself” and learn to embrace all the imperfections about yourself. If you don’t love yourself, you will always be focusing how to dress to impress instead of dressing to express yourself.

Get inspired by others:

As I said before, getting inspired by others is all good. By getting inspired by others you will get some good ideas to try out and see what aligns with you the most. Try pieces that resonate with you the most and wear them with view outfits and see how it feels like. Great way to find out if it is you or not, is by taking pictures of outfits in which you wore the piece and ask your family and friends if they think it aligns with you. Another great way is after wearing the outfit and seeing the photos you took and writing down how this outfit makes you feel. If you for example have a piece and can’t even put together outfit with this piece, it is a sign it is not for you. Just play around and see what feels good for you. It is also important for you to feel comfortable in this piece so make sure you feel this way.

Style pieces that will high light your personality:

Your style should high light your personality not someone else’s. Now that you got to know yourself, and your personality you should be able to know what aligns with your personality. So take for example a leather jacket and make view different outfits with it and see what suits you the most, what outfits screams you. In this part it could also be useful taking pictures and then really looking it and thinking what suits you.

Write it down:

Your style can also change from time to time. Sit down and write down how you are feeling, what are your goals at the moment. All of these can influence your style. Because how someone feels can influence how they dress, because this is also how you express yourself through your emotions. It is great to have a diary where you can write weekly how you feel, so you can change up your style according to how you feel.

Fashion is

not about what you wear, but how it makes you feel. Does it describe me or someone else? In order to find your personal style you have to get to know yourself and love and accept yourself. Otherwise this won’t be your personal style, and you won’t feel good in it. People love to pretend to be someone else, because our society makes us feel we are not good enough. But don’t you get it, every time you didn’t pretend people were more drawn to you. Pretending is not a plus in any aspect of your life.

I always loved glittery

clothes, so one time I bought myself this glitter sneakers. I was so happy to wear them at work, but when I got there my back then best friend totally made fun of it, but I didn’t care because I loved how it looked. I knew I was being true to myself and no one could hurt my feelings. This is why you shouldn’t be pretending, because people won’t be able to insult you when you are being yourself and confident in who you are.

Let’s enjoy who we are and let’s enjoy even more making outfits according to ourselves, no putting masks, we are not about that fake life!

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