I hope you had an amazing weekend and started off week well. I kind of always hate this first days of the week, but lately the weather has been amazing so I can’t be hating anything about it. But anyways today we will talk little bit about over lovely chokers. Chokers are great trend from 90s and it came back and it still after view years going strong. I still remember how obsessed I was with these net chokers my friends and I would always wear them and they would come with pack of choker, these rings and bracelets and I also remember that my mom hated it and didn’t like me wearing.
They didn’t just bring
back the epic trend from 90’s they actually did upgrade it a bit because why bring something back if you won’t upgrade it?! And now we don’t only have cheap net chokers but chokers all kinds of size, style, colour everything from simple black chokers to denim choker yes guys denim chokers are real thing . Chokers are great but there is little problem with them, they are not like regular necklace so they don’t go with everything, so you have to be careful with what you are wearing, so your girl hooking you up today with do’s and don’ts with choker, so you don’t have to think if it is alright like this or not. So here are view do’s and don’ts hope you enjoy it
So let’s first start off with easy stuff and that is DO’S:
1. V- neck t-shirt work or V-neck t-shirt with choker (see in picture below)
great with choker it is open and you can see the neck. This way the choker is shown on your skin and with that hight it gives that lager neck effect
2. Mix them up with your other necklaces
it looks really cool and since they are not places on the same part of the neck it doesn’t distract it from choker
3. For night out the gold or silver choker
is great it will highlight your neck and you will look flawless in your little black dress with gold or silver choker
4. Go for large choker so make your outfit little bit more interesting
it will make your outfit pop out and cool way to style your elegant look with a choker and in case if you are wondering if you need to add something to be more elegant just add large choker it will do the trick
5. You are allow to wear choker with other 90s trends
that is totally in this season and that is velvet yes choker and velvet work great together of course. I would not wear velvet turtleneck dress with choker but nice V neck t-shirt or hight heels or even trousers look great so go for it
6. Mix it up with retro style pieces
Yes choker couldn’t be better to be paired with for example round glasses, high waisted jeans or crop top.
7. With laid back look oversized denim jacket
and some jeans choker will make this look more interesting will compliment the outfit
8. Shoulder off top is great suit to choker, wear bold choker with shoulder off top and some nice trousers or skirt and you will look great and for a second it will look like it is also a part of a top
So now that we went through couple of do’s let’s do don’ts and read this careful this one is more important
1. Don’t over do it!!
Don’t put all kind of choker with different styles and colours no that doesn’t work and it is way too much for one outfit just keep it simple one choker is enough
is pretty much no no as I said it hides your neck and this way it can’t compliment your neck
3. Don’t wear chocker too tight
first your skin will start to get red and that is not good and second it doesn’t look flattering when it is too tight and you should be able to slightly move it around
4. Don’t add earring
when wearing choker you need to keep your focus on your neck and if you are wearing earring that will just be distracting and also one accessory is enough
5. Different patterns
just doesn’t go with choker. You can wear some bracelets with choker but it has so suit and need to be like same style
6. Be careful of style of the choker
if for example the choker is this kind of lace choker you can’t wear laid back outfit it just would look silly
So I thought I would also show you guys view of my fav choker and where you can get them:
This one I got last year in November at Stradivarius and it comes with this two chokers. The first one that long one with little detail on end and I have been wearing this one like crazy. I love that goes down this way it is like necklace as well and it looks great with any outfit with sweater or some simple t-shirt. The other one is little bit special and has this gold details that makes it for your neck so flattering and gives that bigger neck effect and you can wear it with v-neck t-shirt such a good idea and then add some leather jacket and this one cost around 10 dollars
This one I got for present from my friend and I think it is so cute. It is little bit retro the chain and I love it. My style is not that retro but I love putting retro accessories and this is great with high waisted jeans or these mom jeans as well and she got at Forver21 for about 4 dollars
With this I also got two in one, but I only wear the long one I don’t know the other doesn’t suit to my style. I love the fact that it is pretty long and you can set it up differently longer or shorter and even make a bow there it is really cute you can wear it from casual looks to nigh out looks and it is from Bershka and it was around 10 dollars
So guys that was it for my choker do’s and don’ts article. I think chokers are really great and you can play around with them a lot but some things just don’t go at all and I think they are so flattering to your neck as well. Hope you also liked the chokers I showed you which I have been wearing like crazy. Wish all of you amazing people great week
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Leather trousers: 6 outfits that will make you want to wear leather trousers right now
Leather trousers have been in fashion for view years now, especially in winter time. They keep you warm, but also make you look stylish. I have such a love for them because they really make you look like badass babe you we all know you truly are. And also you don’t need to put too much effort into putting together outfit with leather trousers which is always a plus. We are all busy and we can’t be spending all day putting together simple outfit, so that is why peaces like leather trousers are so amazing. I only have one pair but they are true goals I loved them, I bought them last year in Zara and they have been so good to me. It’s very edgy but you can totally style it to be more classy. Anyways I’ll show you today view ways how to wear them:
this is in more like fashionista kind of way. I love these faux jackets they are so stylish this winter and they make any outfit look fabulous am I right? It also makes your outfit way more interesting by just adding this amazing jacket and also as someone who gets cold very fast this jacket is so warm so another good thing about this jacket. Anyways how you can wear it with leather trousers? With some either black t-shirt or sweater to keep you warm. And with that wear ankle boots and with faux jacket heeled ankle boots would look so much better. Also nice black hat and clutch would be perfect pick for this look, on shoulder bag would also work. For accessories I wouldn’t put too much since faux jackets is like accessories, but nice necklace can be very nice. Very fashionista look. Adding some sneakers and beanie to this it would make it casual
this is for these who are looking for elegant and classic looks. I have been loving these long coats, very French style and they are great suit with leather trousers. You could wear this long coat with leather trousers by putting either some bodysuits these are always elegant and classy, or either plain black t-shirt or black blouse what you like more. For shoes go with classics pointed toe heels, super cute and just classy, or ankle boots you know you get never get enough of those. For carrying your stuff around, meaning bag handbag would be great but not too much, the middle size of handbag or clutch, if you don’t need too much stuff to carry. Anyways this is super look for work
Let’s be edgy:
if you know me, you know I just love edgy style and such a badass looks, so this one is for any badass out there who loves edgy and leather jackets like me. With these two leather pieces I would wear simple plain t-shirt either white or grey or any other colours just not black it would be then too black, you just don’t want that. Then add shirt, it could be red/black or white/black to suit the look and put it around your waist, it is just looks cool. For shoes I am thinking either some cool sneakers I have metallic coloured sneakers and I love wearing them with leather pieces ,it looks so good but if you are not into sneakers boots would work too ankle, mid length or long length boots would work. And of course if it is cold maybe add to your t-shirt sweater or cardigan we don’t want you to get cold, and for bag get handbag or even backpack, I think that looks adorable. To make yourself even more badass get simple black choker and some cool rings to go with it. And you have badass look
for everyone who wants to keep it simple this casual look with denim jacket is for you. So you might think denim and leather don’t work, but they actually work pretty well. With leather trousers and some denim jacket, wear some cool shirt, and some sneakers white sneakers would work pretty well . Also backpack would be the best pick for this look, and then accessories it with scarf and bracelets and you have causal look ready
I love business casual looks, they look kind of elegant but also very fashionista like. You can wear either oversized blazer or just normal sized blazer, but honestly I just love these oversized blazer, it looks so much cool. Anyways with the blazer and leather trousers I would wear some cool t-shirt with cool print or even some top, but with colour that pops out. For the shoes any type of boots would work or since it is casual you can choose some nice sneakers or heels, it depends if you are going more for business or more casual. With this look I would wear on shoulder bag. For accessories wear some nice classy watch, and if you want you can also wear hat would suit pretty well. And here you go this look for days you well being causal but also little bit elegant
So here are my six different
styles to wear leather trousers. I just love them so much and they make any outfit look fabulous and you just look like badass. And if you noticed all of these looks are pretty simple, but leather trousers for sure will make all of these outfits stand out. With leather trousers you really can play around and see what looks good or not. I also like that you can even add different fabrics like denim to it without look too tacky. I really had fun putting together these awesome outfits for you guys, so hopefully you will like them as much as I do. So try it out and let me know how you like these looks. Also tell me what’s your favourite style? Anyways my loves thanks for all the support and the love
struggle and it really is hard to know where to begin. I do think that everyone should boost their confidence by themselves. You shouldn’t be using something else to boost confidence, because if you do so your confidence will always be depended on it. For example if you boost confidence by having hot boyfriend, if he breaks up with you, your confidence is gone. You shouldn’t be building your confidence with expensive clothing as well, because you will only feel confident because of this expensive clothing, and it won’t truly come from you.
So you for sure should work on building
it yourself, but it takes time and little help won’t hurt you am I right. For example I am someone who has always been confident in myself, but wearing certain clothing item can make me even more confident and I feel this can help even people who are not confident. The more often you wear this clothes, the more often you will feel confident and therefore eventually it will turn into always feeling this, because you will be tricking your mind. Being confident is all in your mind, so in order to be more confident you need to wear and do more things that make you feel this way. So here are view clothing items that make me feel confident and I am sure will do the same for you, but of course we are different so it might not.
I am so obsessed with leather jacket. It gives me very much badass vibe. It gives me the feeling that I can take over the world and no one can do anything about it. I try to wear leather jacket as much as possible, that is why I sometimes tend to wear leather jacket in freezing winter. I just can’t describe how amazing I feel wearing so I sometimes will go through the pain of being cold just for that. If I have first date with you or even just a date, I am probably wearing leather jacket, at least I won’t be wearing much makeup because I feel badass just by wearing leather jacket. Pro tips for my ladies if you wear leather jacket in winter for a date, he will probably end up giving you his jacket and that is of course a plus.
I don’t what is it, but I feel it doesn’t matter what I wear, it will look good with ankle boots. They are very classy peace and they can also be edgy at the same time if they are leather of course. I always feel good wearing ankle boots I really don’t know why, I guess but they look good with anything.
Metallic skinny jeans:
Not only do this jeans make your legs look so amazing, but it gives powerful woman vibes. When I see these jeans I think about woman who runs her own empire, so when I wear these jeans I feel the same. I feel so powerful and confident no one can bring me down. I only own these kind of jeans and I have like 100 of these and love them so much. Also another plus they are so comfortable. You can style them in so many different ways.
Because skater skirt is wide, it can fly at any time so it already give you confidence enough. It is such a classy peace to wear and you can style this skirt in so many ways. I love wearing skater skirt with a flannel it gives me very much a girly vibe, or if I feel to be more elegant I style it with a blazer. This skirt really makes me feel special and I feel so good wearing it.
Velvet Blazer is very unique item to own, but totally a must. Because it is velvet it make any outfit look elegant. Wearing it gives me very much girl boss vibes and just such a great feeling. Like look at me I am on my way to my big ass office because I am killing at being a boss. Great way to wear this blazer is with very simply dress or with pair of elegant trousers.
I recently bought leather
shirt and let me tell you it does wonders for me. If I am not feeling my outfit I just add this shirt to my outfit and I am feeling much better and even better if I add my red lipstick. It is edgy and classy at the same time. It gives me badass girl vibe and every time I wear it I feel I can take over the world.
So here we go, what do you think? Do you feel the same way about this clothing items as I do? Do you have more confidence wearing them?
I am sharing this to inspire
you and give you some ideas, but of course something that makes me feel good, doesn’t mean it will do the same for you. You got to be aware what item makes you feel good and that one you should be wearing. It is about finding you own items, but with this I hope you inspire you and motivate you. What you wear can really influence how you feel so try being aware of it.
While we are talking about confidence, I made I quiz so you guys can test how confident you are. Building up confidence is a long journey, but it is also important to know where we stand, so we can know what areas to improve.
When you are done with the quiz, make sure to comment your results.
We all love shopping especially us girls, there is nothing better in the world than shopping. Such a powerful feeling to buy something you really like, or just to buy something you wanted for a long time. But there is always difference between what you think it is like and how it is. So for today’s article I thought it would be fun to mix it up, and just write how we think shopping is and how it really is, and who knows you might be able to relate to it. These kind of article are always fun and you might laugh because it is fun
1. Thinking how much stuff you will buy
Expectation: you are coming home with a lot of shopping bags and trying out your awesome stuff you bought. Trying looks with them Reality: you will be for hours in one store and you would just find view stuff and nothing special
2. How much time you would spend shopping
Expectation: you are going in one store. and you find everything you need. and in one hour you are done with some awesome stuff Reality: going in every store in the mall, and spending too much time checking every single item in store, and then you will not even find everything you need
3. Awesome stuff you see in the store
Expectation: seeing awesome stuff in the window, or in store trying it in the fitting room and everything is looking amazing Reality: seeing some awesome stuff trying it out and totally not liking it.
4. Thinking you will be only one who will shop at that time
Exceptions: the whole mall empty, and everyone who works totally helping with anything you need. Reality:the stores are full, people are grabbing anything they can find, and waiting in front of fitting room to try it out
5. Thinking how awesome you are your friends would look while shopping
Expectation: looking all hot with a lot of shopping bags, with amazing clothes looking so good and everyone looking at you Reality: totally looking like you came from hell, with messy hair because of all the shopping and struggle to find something
6. Budget for the shopping:
Expectation: totally thinking you can spend over 1000 dollars or more buying anything you find cute Reality:you can just spend 200 dollars which give you to buy couple of cute tops, trousers and shirt and maybe some bag or shoes
7. Prices at the store
Expectation;everything is super cheap, and everything you find cute is on sale, or really low price that you can for sure afford Reality: the prices are high and stuff you find super cute and totally in love with are too expensive
8. Being able to afford awesome and expensive stuff
Expectation:find all the best deals in the world, calculating with the discounts and getting at least for 20% less for super awesome price Reality: having deals on ugly cheap stuff you don’t want and ending up buying some stuff for way more
9. After shopping trying clothes out
Expectation: trying out clothes with your friends you bought, and having little fashion show making looks for clothes, and just having the best time Reality: totally just checking out the stuff, and leaving on the floor, and probably not even seeing how it looks.
Here we go with my Shopping Expectation Vs Reality article. How much can you relate to it? Remember shopping is suppose to be fun so if you find yourself stressing yourself too much about it, just leave. When I feel I can’t be bothered to go shopping, I just go online and see if I can find anything there.
Reminder: Don’t stress out too much about shopping!
Although some people strongly disagree with feminists I see true power in feminism. Being feminist isn’t just for women, it is for all of us. It is shaping us to be better versions of ourselves, and to think for ourselves and not what we are taught to believe. Feminism is also helping us fix the messed up system we live in, that will eventually be beneficial for all of us. Everyone earning enough money, plus working less which means more freedom, isn’t this beneficial for all of us? If you would be more open minded, you would see the beauty of feminism. Anyways here are some reasons I’m feminist and think everyone else should be too:
-The belief that women shouldn’t be smarter than men and if you are no man will want you is the reasons I’m feminist:
We are all smart in our own unique ways, and women are smart too. The belief that a woman who is a smart is no good for any man is ridiculous. Feminism is showing that this is not true, and you can find a man when you are smart. Having a smart woman around him is priceless and every man’s biggest dream trust me!
-Because even though I am not too worried about, many women are scared to walk alone at certain time:
Yes this world is crazy, that a human being has to worry about walking alone at the night. It is not okay, what if she wants to walk by herself sometimes? She can’t do this, because our society allowed men to become aggressive towards women, so now women are too scared. Feminism is fighting this issue by helping women be more confident and bringing awareness to men and that being aggressive is not cute.
-Because a woman in a room full of men is terrified is the reasons I’m feminist:
If a man is in a room full of woman, he is loving his life feeling his is the start, but when is other way around it is different story. Men make us feel uncomfortable, they make us feel less and they don’t take us seriously. We shouldn’t be afraid to walk in the room full of men, we should own this shit. But even confident woman would feel scared, because they make you feel this way. Feminism is teaching women to not be afraid and own their power.
-Because women’s value shouldn’t be based on her sexual history:
Yes it is disgusting how they value us based on our sexual history. My sexual history is only my business and regardless what I have done sexually it doesn’t define me who I am as a person. We are all different and what we do sexually is different others and that is fine, we are allowed to do whatever feels right. Feminism taught me that what I did sexually doesn’t define me, and that I am still worthy regardless of what I did.
-Because of sexist comments:
To be disrespectful to a woman just because she is a woman is not okay. To discriminate her with your rude comments is not acceptable. Sexism has been in our society for long time and needs to go aways. Feminism is fighting this huge issue we have be dealing with.
-People like to shame women for focusing on their careers:
Woman can focus on her career is up to her. She doesn’t have to do anything society wants her to do. It is all up to her, and no one has right to shame her for it. It this is what she wants, she is doing the right thing.
-Because being called a “girl” is considered a bad thing:
Our society likes to make girls seems like they are weak, not able to succeed or do anything in life, which is so false. All humans are amazing and regardless if you are man or a woman, you should be proud of it. No one should shame you for being that.
-Because it is more humiliating to be raped than to be a rapist:
When woman gets raped it is all her fault, they consider her dirty and not pure anymore. But they never shame rapist and it is never really his fault. If he raped her, her being dirty is all in his hands. She couldn’t control it, he forced her to do it so making her feel shitty is not okay. Feminism is fighting this mindset so people consider rapist as dirty and not the victim.
-Because no one should be afraid of losing their job, because they call out their bosses for harassment:
No one should be harasst by their boss. That is not okay, and this totally isn’t nice working environment. Bosses should learn not to harass their employees, it is not acceptable. Everyone has right to call out their boss for bad behaviour without losing their job.
-Because young girls are worrying more about how much eating instead of enjoying their youth:
Our society is giving young girls unrealistic beauty standers. Young girls are way too young to be worrying about how much they eat. They shouldn’t even care about it, as long as you enjoy what you are eating who really cares. We shouldn’t change ourselves, because our society thinks the only way you are beautiful is if you are skinny. We are all beautiful in our own unique ways and we don’t need to change, our society needs to change! Feminism is helping beautiful young girls accept themselves and love for who they are.
Being a feminist is something
I am really proud of. Feminism is opening eyes to so many, and helping them in so many ways. They helping so many feel better about themselves, it is freeing them over ridiculous pressure our society puts us on. It is wonderful community to be part of and I entourage everyone to join and be feminist. You can simply join by just being your true self.